Daystar just accepted it. Destiny walks best though. Daystars shy so she cant be brought out where theres lots of people. I have a better harness now but Destiny is better to bring because she likes all people and shes not shy so she will walk and go right up to people where Daystar hides. so i rarely bring Daystar out anymore. They just accept the harness like a collar. Best start using it when theyre kittens.