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It never ends!

Bad enough I recently lost my conure and cockatiel two days ago i lost my sister to suicide and she was only 21. I cant stop crying im not sure if ill ever get past it. I cant eat sleep or think straight. Im a mess. bad enough yesterday i lost a baby chick because it drowned. And one of my sexlinks was in the same pool saturated because she couldnt get out. She almost drowned as a newborn too.
This never ends for me it just keeps going.

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I am so so sorry about your sister there isn't a lot I can say to make you feel better because when all the bad things happen in my life the first thing said is 'it will be okay' when I know it won't. But I really do hope things get better for you

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Sending my deepest condolences... Words just don't seem enough so all I can say is I am truly sorry.
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I am sorry for your loss. Time is a great healer.
You can only be expected to be a mess right now.
You'll see the light at the end of the tunnel one day.
Try to just nibble some food for your birds sake.
They need there birdy momma to be there to take care of them.
The fact that you reached out on the forum to us is good.
We're here to support you.
Sometimes its good just to let it out.

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i am so very sorry about your sister

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Oh I am so sorry for all of your losses... I know how you feel. My father decided to commit suicide 5 years ago. I know there is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better but if you just stay secluded and locked up in your misery, you will just become depressed. You have to force yourself to get out and spend time with your friends and family. You won't feel like it but I promise, it will help. I promise, it gets better.
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I am so so so sorry for your loss, I'll keep you in my prayers I know time heals all wounds but Meghan is absolutely right you need to force yourself to continue on in life because if you seclude yourself it will make you depressed, just try to eat some light foods like fruits force yourself to eat at least 2 or 3 a day. Again I'm so sorry for all your losses try and be strong okay, were all here for you and we care.

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I'm so sorry for your loss, I've lost friends in the same devastating way, and it never seems to get any easier.. But like the others said, your birdies need you, and they will give you love and something to do when you are having a hard time. Stay strong, we are here for you!



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So sorry to hear all of this.
Wish there was something I could say to make you feel better but there really isn't anything anyone can do or say. I think we all understand how you feel to some degree and we only hope that things get better for you, which they have to, I mean, they can't get worse, really...



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I am SO sorry for you losses.



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Thanks everyone. But this is something thats not going away for along time as I grew up with her and we did allot of stuff together my childhood is gone now. I already know I dont have a future either. yesterday I did take pics yesterday of my fids but I don't feel like posting them as theres to many. :/

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That's fine, you have a future, you'e so knowledgeable about budgie mutations.
We need you!

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Your childhood will never be gone you will always have memories and shell always be with you in your heart so dont feel alone cuz shes with you 24/7 shopping with you and doing everything you are so know shes with you jus not inna physical form and I'm sure she wud want you to make yourself a good future

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