Honestly it all depends on an individual bird. You'd have to get to know one bird in particular to know how it was going to act. You could get a really easy to bore timneh grey but a super enthusiastic budgie
HOWEVER, generally it would go like this most likely...
But like I said, it's not always true!
I find my budgies to be the snuggliest of my birds though! Honestly, it really really does depend on the bird itself
Have you considered the pionus genus? I really like them, they're beautiful, not often
loud (depends on the individual... again!) and very clever birds. There's also the other parrots in the poi family (same as the Senegal), there's the red bellied, Meyer's, brown headed and Jardine's! There's three more but they're not very common at all, so I wont go into those. Alexandrine parakeets are also lovely birds, big, but lovely! I don't know if they are that loud though, from what I've seen they aren't but they certainly have potential to be